Masonic Brotherhood: Why No Mason Stands Alone
MASONIC RITUAL
Masonic Brotherhood
Why No Mason Stands Alone
Modern life often celebrates the idea of the completely independent person— the man who needs no help, handles every difficulty himself, and owes his success to no one.
Freemasonry offers us a very different picture. Think about your own Masonic journey. None of us entered the Lodge already knowing the ritual, customs, traditions, or lessons of the Craft. Someone instructed us. Someone answered our questions. Someone corrected us when we stumbled and encouraged us when we were unsure.
We became Masons with the help of other Masons. Philosopher Alasdair MacIntyre, in his 1999 book Dependent Rational Animals, makes an observation that fits remarkably well with this experience. Human beings, he argues, are capable of becoming independent practical thinkers—but we develop that independence through relationships with others. From childhood through old age, vulnerability and dependence remain part of human life. Flourishing therefore requires not only independence, but virtues that allow us to give help, receive help, and recognize our obligations to one another.
There is a lesson for Masonry in that. We often speak about making good men better, but that process does not happen by simply placing a man in a Lodge room. It happens through relationships. A Brother patiently teaches ritual. A Past Master offers advice to a new officer. Someone notices a Brother struggling and quietly asks if everything is all right. An experienced Mason welcomes a new member to the dinner table instead of allowing him to sit alone.
Photo: (l to r) RW Addison Cruz being introduced by MWB Steven Adam Rubin, Past Grand Master of the GLNY at the Clinton-Essex District Apron Presentation.
These may seem like small things, but they are how Brotherhood becomes real.
And so there is a question worth asking ourselves: Who are you becoming for the next Brother? Newer Masons are learning from more than our ritual. They are watching how we treat one another. They notice how we welcome visitors, how we respond to disagreement, how we speak about a Brother who is not in the room, and whether we offer encouragement as readily as criticism.
Our example is part of their Masonic education. Brotherhood also requires humility from the person receiving help. There will be times when each of us needs another Brother — perhaps because of family responsibilities, age, illness, uncertainty, or simply because life has become difficult. Allowing a Brother to help us is not a failure of independence. It gives him the opportunity to practice the very Brotherhood we promise one another. The strength of a Lodge, then, cannot be measured only by beautiful ritual, successful events, or the number of men sitting in the room. It can also be found in the relationships between them. Do experienced Masons teach the next generation? Do Brothers notice when someone disappears? Do we make room for the new Mason? Can we disagree and still treat one another as Brothers? MacIntyre reminds us that independence and dependence are not opposites. We become stronger individuals because others have invested something of themselves in us.
Photo: (l to r) RW Edward Kirby, DDGM Clinton-Essex Masonic District with MWB Rubin.
Let us remember these important points, my Brothers:
- Freemasonry gives us the opportunity to return that gift
- Someone helped make you the Mason you are today
Now ask yourself: how are you helping to shape Freemasonry for tomorrow?
Written by: WB Ian M. McHugh
Past Master, Master's Lodge No 5, Albany, New York
Article was orginially published in the Albany (New York) Masonic Temple Newsletter (September 2026 edition)