Atomic Habits An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

Atomic Habits An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

MASONIC BOOK REVIEW

“Atomic Habits:
An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones”

by James Clear

In the New York Times bestseller, “Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones,” James Clear, one of the world’s leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. The book has sold over 20 million copies worldwide and has been translated into more than 60 languages.
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Habits and routines are translated to the rituals performed within Freemasonry. It is a lesson articulated with great detail and symbolism in the Entered Apprentice degree. Of the tools, the 24-inch gauge alludes to the application of rituals within our own lives to guide our journey through life. Within Freemasonry, the 24-inch gauge alludes to the following:

An instrument made use of by operative Masons to measure and lay out their work. But we, as Free and Accepted Masons, are taught to make use of it for the more noble and glorious purpose of dividing our time.

The intentional use of our time is emphasized at the beginning of our Masonic journeys. Yet, it is curious that such a description of balancing time in three parts is something increasingly difficult in the modern era. Furthermore, the application of how to establish rituals that build ourselves to those rituals that consistently hamper us remains an ongoing exploration within and outside the Craft.

I found “Atomic Habits,” to provide insight into both the process and purpose of rituals or habits in this context. The author suggests that the essence of habits are inner aspirations for the type of person we wish to become rather than simply the action. It is the inner drive to our aspirations that make habits or rituals part of our routines towards organizing and directing our energies. Masonically, it is a reminder that all ritual and habits are touching upon the daily act of discovering our innermost self and, in response, finding habits that correspond to our identity.

For Brothers, Clear’s book has several practical applications that give insight into perfecting ourselves within and outside the Craft. One of the most practical suggestions from “Atomic Habits” is to do the bare minimum pursuing a habit to build upon with greater energy and duration as the habit or ritual becomes part of our routine and persona. In his “Two Minute Rule,” Clear recommends doing the smallest amount of effort towards our desired habit to reduce the barriers to begin the process.

Through daily application, increasing our duration of the routine becomes instinctual and natural. In the context of Masonic ritual, this principle has important applications in approaching ritual and making it less daunting. It suggests doing small portions and practicing overtime can develop an affinity and natural attention to the ritual. For Brothers like myself, this is an area of the Craft that can be difficult to approach if one’s affinity is outside ritual and other areas of the Craft. Yet, it is a powerful method to begin one’s journey within the Craft.

Clear’s writing has other such useful tools. He suggests that focusing on the systems towards our goals, making small changes, building habits focused on the desired identity that we wish to embody, and fostering a supportive community all work together to establish rituals that are not only beneficial, but meaningful to the larger story within the Craft.

In closing, in context of the 24-inch gauge, Atomic Habits frames that the process of dividing our time can be reframed as dividing our rituals into manageable portions. This allows us to strive towards greater unity, Fellowship, and appreciation for Masonic ritual that bind and guide our Fraternity.

Written by: Bro. Jonathan Kopel

 

Bro. Kopel is a MD PhD in his neurology residency in Washington DC. He is a member at Potomac Lodge #5 and Benjamin B. French Lodge #15 of the Grand Lodge of the District of Columbia, Washington, DC.

Samuel Lloyd Kinsey

Why Buddhism is True

Why Buddhism is True

MASONIC BOOK REVIEW

“Why Buddhism is True”

by Robert Wright

“Buddha believed that the less you judge things—including the contents of your mind—the more clearly you’ll see them, and the less deluded you’ll be.” ― Robert Wright, Why Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Meditation and Enlightenment

Despite reflections and personal meditations, Robert Wright’s comment sparked insight into the pervasiveness of cognitive biases in our daily life. As a Freemason, these cognitive biases are many and present themselves differently depending on the context and person in question. We’ve all had moments where a tired mind has made us say or do things that we wouldn’t otherwise have done while being alert. It is these biases within our minds that linger from our evolutionary past. The rough edges of being that we must constantly work to chisel off with intent and purpose.

Within our Lodge rooms, we are taught about controlling our passions and desires within bounds. Yet I wonder if the imagery focuses more on the spectrum of our emotional sates or actions rather than the underlying cognitive biases or mental blocks that prevent us from appraising the situation accurately and responding accordingly? According to Wright, Buddhism’s interpretation of the human mind—including our propensity for selfish goals and the transient nature of pleasure—acknowledge that our minds have a remarkable ability to not only think, but delude ourselves based upon our limited sensory perceptions. A fundamental principle of Buddhism implies that our perception of a fixed self is a delusion, and acknowledging this might assist us in letting go of our attachment to experiences and desires.

The idea of delusions accurately reflects my professional experience in practicing medicine. Whether it is the physical appearance, speech, or mannerisms of the patient as well as my own emotional state and medical system I operate in, these factors have been shown to have significant influence on the decisions made my doctors and other medical staff. When ignored or dismissed, these biases spiral and grow larger and larger, often leading to medical errors, unnecessary treatments or misunderstandings. I would argue that when it comes to subduing our passions, a large part of the practice is more a self-understanding of the triggers, situations and states that cause ourselves to stumble and delude ourselves into having an assessment of a situation.

Wright’s book frames these cognitive biases as evolutionary baggage from our collective pasts. Rather than seeing our biases as personal flaws, his book assess them as part of our human nature that we are still working to manage, contain, and, hopefully, let go as we progress. Within the Craft, the process of keeping these biases or passions within bounds is the art of inward reflection or meditation. Beyond the ritual work and business of the Lodge, to be a Mason is the art of understanding our consciousness, including our imperfections. Through working together as a fraternity, those imperfections become seeds of understanding and opportunities to practice managing our tendencies towards something better. Removing the emotive element of our imperfections allows for a greater willingness to address those imperfections with a gentle spirit towards ourselves and others, regardless of our respective religious traditions.

As Robert Wright referenced in Why Buddhism is True, “The Dalai Lama has said, ‘Don’t try to use what you learn from Buddhism to be a better Buddhist; use it to be a better whatever-you-already-are.'”

Written by: Bro. Jonathan Kopel

 

Bro. Kopel is a MD PhD in his neurology residency in Washington DC. He is a member at Potomac Lodge #5 and Benjamin B. French Lodge #15 of the Grand Lodge of the District of Columbia, Washington, DC.

Samuel Lloyd Kinsey

Siddhartha

Siddhartha

MASONIC BOOK REVIEW

“Siddhartha”

by Hermann Hesse

Knowledge of the self has been the central dilemma of all ancient mystery schools. It is the question that we are Masons aim to discover. It is such a central theme that even the Greeks at the Temple of Delphi wrote, “Know thyself and you will know the Gods and the universe”. One may even argue that this question is at the heart of every religious tradition. The question of what am I to the universe and God strikes at the heart of our human condition of being born and destined to die. How we approach answering this question determines, in many respects, the trajectory of our lives. It is this question that lies at the heart of Hermann Hesse’s “Siddartha”. It is a book that escaped my awareness until another close Brother recommended it as part of our discussion and studies.

For most, religion provides an avenue for exploring this question. The organization and structure reduces the fear of those larger questions and gives some semblance of control and ease. But life has a way of popping the bubble so to speak. Although many people find stability in religion and growth, Siddhartha sees this as a stifling of his inner self, which is the real mystery he wishes to understand. As Hermman wrote:

“Far is such a thought from my mind,” exclaimed Siddhartha. “I wish that they shall all stay with the teachings, that they shall reach their goal! It is not my place to judge another person’s life. Only for myself, for myself alone, I must decide, I must chose, I must refuse. Salvation from the self is what we Samanas search for, oh exalted one. If I merely were one of your disciples, oh venerable one, I’d fear that it might happen to me that only seemingly, only deceptively my self would be calm and be redeemed, but that in truth it would live on and grow, for then I had replaced my self with the teachings, my duty to follow you, my love for you, and the community of the monks… I am deprived by the Buddha, thought Siddhartha, I am deprived, and even more he has given to me. He has deprived me of my friend, the one who had believed in me and now believes in him, who had been my shadow and is now Gotama’s shadow. But he has given me Siddhartha, myself.”
Through Siddhartha’s journey, the pains, struggles, and conflicts of life are embedded in a larger desire for understanding and truth. Even those closest to him find his desire curious for he has gained everything his heart desired. But in those desires, he finds his being becoming disheartened and self-destructive. Fundamentally, the constructs we hold are disturbed by the greatest of all fears: death. Through the character of Siddartha, Hermann explores the journey of faith rather than the destination. Siddartha transforms and expands his understanding of life through each stage of understanding that is eventually distrubed and reformed to the next stage of understanding. At each stage, Siddartha’s journey is influenced by a central character. In the text, the most important of which is Vasuveda who teaches Siddhartha the essence of the divine life. It is this journey that makes Siddhartha exclaim:

“I want to learn from myself, want to be my student,
want to get to know myself, the secret of Siddhartha.”

It is curious that this central theme of Freemasonry, knowledge of self and union with God, is often covered in tradition, formality, and perfection of the ritual. Yet, deep within its narrative, Siddhartha’s journey mirrors our Masonic journey. A cycle of coming from darkness to light with a fellow Brother or Vasuveda to help us along the way. It is my belief that within the Craft, we all find a Brother who embodies the heart and wisdom of Vasuveda. They open our hearts and see the true self that lies within us. They find pleasure in joining the journey with us and delighting as we grow beyond what we imagined to find joy within our relationship with God and creation. But why do we find it so difficult to embrace this simple discovery of our self being the secret to all of life?

Perhaps, as I suspect, we find our imperfections and mortality as reflections of something abhorrent or unworthy to being a vessel of knowledge. In our deepest thoughts, we perhaps think that our “self” isn’t worth the exploring. What if I’m truly unremarkable? Reflecting on my Craft as a physician, I’ve come to the conclusion that each person has a remarkable and unfolding story to share. Not because of their own individual story. But how their story is interconnected to everyone else. It is the interconnectedness of life within ourselves and the universe that embodies the unfolding nature of the divine and love that Hermann writes through Siddhartha:

And everything together, all voices, all goals, all yearning, all suffering, all pleasure, all that was good and evil, all of this together was the world. All of it together was the flow of events, was the music of life. And when Siddhartha was listening attentively to this river, this song of a thousand voices, when he neither listened to the suffering nor the laughter, when he did not tie his soul to any particular voice and submerged his self into it, but when he heard them all, perceived the whole, the oneness, then the great song of the thousand voices consisted of a single word, which was Om: the perfection.

It may be that Siddhartha was a reflection of Hermann’s own journey to understand himself. What did Hermann discover? I believe it is the main answer we learn in Freemasonry: love. For it is the human heart and our relationship to all of the universe that defines our journey and the divine journey as one. It is learning to see our journey as a part of the larger journey of God to discover itself. And to understand what that means.

Written by: Bro. Jonathan Kopel

 

Bro. Kopel is a MD PhD in his neurology residency in Washington DC. He is a member at Potomac Lodge #5 and Benjamin B. French Lodge #15 of the Grand Lodge of the District of Columbia, Washington, DC.

Samuel Lloyd Kinsey

Being Mortal – Medicine and What Matters in the End

Being Mortal – Medicine and What Matters in the End

MASONIC BOOK REVIEW

“Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End”

By Dr. Atul Gawande

The drama of the human condition is fully encapsulated with the mystery of death and what lies beyond. Yet, how we approach the mystery itself is a question that requires a deeper and more intimate appraisal of our own mortality. And more deeply, our personal story leading to that point. It is these questions that the physician, Dr. Atul Gawande, approaches in his book, “Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End.”

Dr. Gawande’s book is a mixture of exposition and memoir delving into the development of our modern conception of death, the ethical considerations, and the many instiututional hurdles that often interfere or miss the true important. Among the topics explored, the discussion on the medicalization of dying reminded me of experiences I had during my medical training. In his work, Gawande criticizes the tendency to medicalize aging and dying, leading to unnecessary interventions that can sometimes prolong suffering instead of providing comfort and dignity. This preoccupation with treatment to avoid difficult conversations or what I call “treat to deflect” reduces patient autonomy, choice, and the ability to confront death in a meaningful way for themselves and those closest to the patient’s life. As a physician in training, this observation has taught me the value of stories and community in my own life as well as the patient’s I help. The greatest gift I can provide a patient facing death is the courage to embrace death and not seek after treatments that will only prolong their suffering. As one elderly patient taught me, the longing to live is built on a castle of hurt. This patient had a worsening clinical course complicated from his diabetes leading to several amputations and persistent bleeding. It was likely he would have his entire limb amputated and suffer additional infections and complications that would end his life. It was a conversation that I saw the surgical staff avoid addressing directly. The patient was visibly distraught and unsure how to proceed.
By creating a space to open up, my patient expressed feelings of regret, shame, and inadequacy. He felt robbed of the chance of having more time to ask the big questions in life. As he told me, to think about God and find the true meaning of living within. In our conversation, I realized that me engaging with him, listening, and being honest about not knowing opened his heart a bit more. I let myself be vulnerable by telling him that his life mattered because he was teaching me already to be a good doctor. Despite our differences, we both feared death and faced life’s most difficult questions each day we live. I was showing him and myself that we were simply human beings. Not patient and doctor. Two human beings trying to figure out this journey called life. I happen to have skills to help. He had the stories and experiences to share. After his sister and other relatives came to talk with him about his choice, he eventually agreed to go on hospice and palliative care. His face looked completely different. The man I saw this morning was replaced with someone who was alive, happy, and had his personality back. His unkempt hair showed more of his personality that I had overlooked before. And the patient was grateful that someone listened and spoke to his heart rather than his head. As Masons, the journey of finding harmony between the head and the heart comes from the confrontation of death described in the third degree. However, it is a journey that asks each of us the integrity and character by which we live. It asks us to engage with the difficult questions of life. Sometimes, for many years without a complete answer. But within that journey, the true meaning and expression of the divine we harbor comes forth through the way we act, live, and help those in need. It is expressed in ourselves and valuing this life that we live. The aforementioned patient reminds me that life’s biggest questions are a reflection of the divine exploration we are called to participate in. The human quest for truth and light is a reflection of the divine journey. It is a reminder that this life is one of a series of events and moments to come. What matters is looking beyond the physical and finding that purpose within that will carry us forth now and into the future. The promise of continued exploration and journey with the divine. To be both the answer and question to the divine journey that we have yet to fully understand.

Written by: Bro. Jonathan Kopel

 

Bro. Kopel is a MD PhD in his neurology residency in Washington DC. He is a member at Potomac Lodge #5 and Benjamin B. French Lodge #15 of the Grand Lodge of the District of Columbia, Washington, DC.

Samuel Lloyd Kinsey
The Secret of Our Success – How Culture Is Driving Human Evolution, Domesticating Our Species, and Making Us Smarter

The Secret of Our Success – How Culture Is Driving Human Evolution, Domesticating Our Species, and Making Us Smarter

MASONIC BOOK REVIEW

“The Secret of Our Success”

by Joseph Heinrich

Unlike other authors, Heinrich’s exploration on cultural evolution provides surprising insight into the workings of the Craft and some of the subtle lessons embodied in the first three degrees. One might say that the idea of cultural evolution is an integral part of what makes Freemasonry a prime example of how group dynamics and traditions are passed down and modified accordingly to preserve wisdom and spiritual insights relevant for each generation of newly raised Brothers.
In “The Secret of Our Success,” Henrich takes a unique perspective on the success of human beings that differs from the popular conception of human evolution, which regularly alludes to our increased brain capacity. Although important, Heinrich argues that the key to human evolutionary success lies not in individual intelligence, but in our unique ability to collectively learn and share knowledge through culture. Rather than relying on a singular individual, human beings have a unique and uncanny ability to transmit knowledge, traditions and wisdom through each generation. Together, these collective traditions coalesce into a “collective brain” that allows for cumulative cultural evolution, where complex technologies, social norms and knowledge build upon each other across generations.
Heinrich repeatedly alludes to several aspects of cultural evolution, such as cultural intelligence, cumulative cultural evolution, a collective brain, cultural innovation and cultural influences on genetics, which explain a large portion of the success of the human race. These examples illustrate how our collective knowledge, shared across a group, acts like a “super brain” that surpasses individual cognitive abilities. As with Stonemasons, previous generations did not have to reinvent the working tools to build their physical and spiritual temples. Instead, the Masonic Fraternity has found that collective memory can be shared through symbols and rituals that both preserve spiritual insights while allowing for the individual journey to manifest and unfold through these traditions handed down from generation to generation. Within the Craft, the relationships formed with older members with deep memories in both the history and ritual, help to maintain and share these traditions through both oral and written traditions. One might say that Freemasonry is a great example of the power and potency that cultural evolution has played in the success and achievements of our species against the formidable forces of nature and other processes. Yet, on a deeper and more spiritual level, the idea of cultural evolution reminds me of the many mentors, both Masonic and non-Masonic, that shaped my own growth as a professional and as a person. As a Master Mason, my success, both spiritual and professional, is truly laid by the work of those who came before me, who continue to guide and teach me the skills and attitudes necessary to follow the God has outlined. Through this interplay, we personally arrive at the conclusion that the path of spiritual enlightenment is both an individual and social good bestowed by God in the narrative of our own life story. The lesson learned is that spiritual life is a beautiful connection of the human race and the Almighty’s universe. A wondrous cacophony of the past, present, and future mixed together in the unfolding spiritual lessons being transferred and expanded on with each generation.

Written by: Bro. Jonathan Kopel

 

Bro. Kopel is a MD PhD in his neurology residency in Washington DC. He is a member at Potomac Lodge #5 and Benjamin B. French Lodge #15 of the Grand Lodge of the District of Columbia, Washington, DC.

Samuel Lloyd Kinsey